wow Beau...I'm surprised by this comment...it suggest that homosexuality is a choice. You don't SERIOUSLY think that someone is born heterosexual and decides one day to become homosexual because they don't have to worry about becoming pregnant do you? It is commonly accepted that one is either born gay or born straight.
America is an idea, but it's an idea that brings with it some baggage, like power brings responsibility. It's an idea that brings with it equality, but equality even though it's the highest calling, is the hardest to reach. The idea that anything is possible, that's one of the reasons why I'm a fan of America. - Bono, Commencement University of Pennsylvania May 17, 2004
Not at all, Tracy, but being sexually active at an early age is a choice ,and many of our teens are making the choice to engage in unprotective sex . However, one positive result in these school programs that offered sex education, health hygiene, condoms ,and other contraceptives to young students, is it has awakened young people to the risks of being sexually active, and the dangers of the spread of disease, stds, aids, etc. It may have also encouraged young people to engage in sexual experimentation ,weakened older social taboos on non-procreation sexual intercourse, fetishism, reverse sexual role-playing, etc. Society has promoted 'personal responsibility' for sex at a younger age and it has brought us a greater diversity of sexual license of all kinds.
Whaaaaaaat?
You lost me here. If I understand your point correctly, it's that sex ed has encouraged young people to experiment sexually and have sex? The complete opposite is true. Sex ed of ANY kind - abstinence or formal - causes a high percentage teens to delay having sex. Formal sex education also helps to prevent pregnancy in teens that choose to engage and prevent the spread of STDs in the 15-19 yo population.
As for whether sex ed contributes to an increase in fetishes or reverse sexual role-playing (whatever that is...), I have never heard anything even remotely close to that being true.
Jessica,Sex ed makes sexual activity safer, healthier , more hygienic , sanitary ,etc. . "Sex" is no longer conceived as taboo, "dirty", private, doesn't suggest the 'dirty fumbling in the backseats of cars at drive-in movies' type of thinking anymore or less so. So, sexual education had to have played a role into making 'sex' into something wholesome, healthy, natural, and pleasurable no matter how people have 'done it'.You lost me here. If I understand your point correctly, it's that sex ed has encouraged young people to experiment sexually and have sex?
If anyone is willing to accept that its ok for a 12 year old to have sex then you should expect them to take some responsibility.
Yes, but if we are going to look at it we need to look at it from all angles and add all data that is important and 12 year old girls fit into the demographic.
If your 12 year old girl gets pregnant, you've got bigger problems. Chances are that's rape unless another 12 year old knocked her up...in that case, you need to move.
I don't think everyone who can get pregnant needs to be lumped into NYC's public HS's Plan B idea.... unless the topic has changed? Wait, did the topic change?
Moving is not going to make her sexually inactive, yeah maybe the parents should be more n watch. She's still going to have or make chances to have sex regardless, of how strict you are. Plus even if you did find out that she is equally active, and you get more strict, it's only going t make her rebel, and do it anyway. Moving ain't going to stop the pregnancy either.
i know a story about someone who goes to a small little tiny convenient store/ deli for some things. She knows the people pretty well, follows the proper procedures to getting her order filled for when she needs it picked up. She arrives when she is told to pick her order up, yet the order is not ready. She harasses them some about it and they sorry there was something happening across the street from said place. Apparently a young juvenile couple, or maybe not even a couple, from the Christian (I think) school , a tiny bit down the road. We're on the steps of the not so occupied building across the street doing some things to each other, before the boy hiked up her school uniform skirt and started to do some way more adult like things.
Now say you were her parents, and told her she needs to come straight home for school afterwards, and this place is on the way to her house. Maybe he dips out of school early and meets up with young buck, and does this. Or maybe she didn't dip out early, and she knew you may be coming home a little late, whether it happened here or at home. There is nothing you could of done to prevent that little hussy and man pig from doing that. Don't know the ages, and don't know what ever came out of it, whether legal, or family issues. Moving would not change that either, she would just find someone else to do it with.
It's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years......
So, in essence , you're agreeing
with the women on here(Jessica, Tracy, hockey) and the N Y C school system that they haven't the capability or even the authority to prevent teenage students from being sexually active, but the best practical optimal solution would be to help the young manage the consequences of their actions. Isn't it like giving out free , clean ,sanitized needles to heroin addicts in order to control the spread of STDs, AIDS ,and other diseases? You can't control the behavior, but you can manage the outcomes of the behavior to some degree.
Last edited by Beau Stockard; 09-30-2012 at 04:45 PM. Reason: punc.
I guess I am. I can not say I am for it, but then again I can not say I am against it either. I know if I was a parent, I would much rather my daughter come to my Wife and I and we could help her take the proper procedures to make sure as much as possible, she would never need the option the school is giving.
Need to make sure my statement before is correct though. That morning after pills do not terminate if the demons have already reached the holy grail. Because that really weighs heavily on what side I'm on.
It's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years......
Based on just your posts in this thread, Beau. I believe your seriously smoke more than a peace pipe.
Bellicose,No doubt it should on you and other concerned parents of teenage children who choose to become sexually active. Stay active in your PTA and in your children's lives and nurture a strong, open, and trusting relationship with them.Because that really weighs heavily on what side I'm on.
motherof3 (10-01-2012)