I need opinons

Originally Posted by Decent

What really kills me is that this is something we've always done. We borrow from eachother all the time, everything from money to clothes, and until this, I've always given her back what I borrowed, on time. She's the one who's usually late, and I dont say a word about it.

She moved into a house about four months ago, left a bunch of stuff including a huge king sized mattress in my tiny apartment and said she would get it in a couple weeks, that was four months ago. I took a load of it to her yesterday with 50 bucks and her 12 year old daughter yelled at me and said you know we don't have any where to put this stuff.

I've been hearing from other people for a couple years that she's just been using me and she's only concerned with money, but I always defended her. I'm beginning to believe they were right, now. I'm one of those soft hearted types that believes there's good in everyone, needless to say I get walked on a lot.

I am paying her back, I wasnt asking if I should or not, I just wanted opinions on whether or not I should bother trying to continue the friendship.

Thanks everyone.

I'm in the market for a new best friend, no borrowing this time, lol. Any applicants?

Decent

Originally Posted by Curly

After reading this new info, she was never your friend. You should have replied to her daughter, "Tell mommy to put that stuff right where her head is located".

Originally Posted by frogman68

Well you could of hit the Rep button lol

Originally Posted by Curly

After reading this new info, she was never your friend. You should have replied to her daughter, "Tell mommy to put that stuff right where her head is located".

Originally Posted by boundchaos

Tell her she has one week to get her shit out of your house or (i) you'll sell it and give her the proceeds to pay off your debt to her or (ii) begin to charge her storage fees of $50 a week which will count against your outstanding balance to her.

She wants to have her cake and eat it too and that's bullshit.

Originally Posted by Curly

We all do at some time or another. Some more often than others. Yes Decent, you can do better when it comes to friends.
No, you're priceless. Don't forget it.

Originally Posted by Rusty

I'll be your friend

Originally Posted by boundchaos

Tell her she has one week to get her shit out of your house or (i) you'll sell it and give her the proceeds to pay off your debt to her or (ii) begin to charge her storage fees of $50 a week which will count against your outstanding balance to her.

She wants to have her cake and eat it too and that's bullshit.

Originally Posted by Decent

I did tell her that, that since she abandoned her stuff there for four months, we should call it even. To which she replied that I never asked for storage fees and I still owed her money.

Really thats fine, I mean, she will get it, I dont care if we're done or not or what she's done, or having her stuff etc. I owe, I pay, but she's really losing out here. I was the best friend she had, and I'm not like bragging or anything, but she really didnt have any other friends, people kept bailing after awhile. I'm nowhere near conceited, I actually have a prob with low self esteem, but even I have to say this, she'll get her 300, but I think I am worth a lot more than that.

Decent